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Unlocking Inherent Greatness: Rabbi Ricky Cohen on Building People
The Joy of Living Podcast with Barry Shore
What happens when a rabbi, a builder, a businessman, and a teacher all live in the same soul? You get Rabbi Ricky Cohen—today’s extraordinary guest who joins Barry Shore to deliver a masterclass on human greatness, radical education, and the sacred art of building people.
In this rich and transformative conversation, Rabbi Ricky shares the powerful belief that greatness is not something we achieve, but something we already are. He challenges the myth of retirement, champions the necessity of failure, and reveals how love and business are, at their core, acts of service and sacred responsibility.
From sweeping floors post-NYU to scaling a family business into a national success, Rabbi Ricky’s stories are not just inspiring—they’re instructional. He speaks about building trust in teams, the loneliness epidemic in our culture, and the urgent need for educators to see their students as souls, not just receptacles for data.
Whether he’s talking business, marriage, faith, or failure, every word is laced with love and the relentless pursuit of meaningful growth. This episode will touch your heart, ignite your mind, and possibly shift the way you see your own path forever.
This is not just an interview—it’s an invitation to build the life only you can live.
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Show Notes:
[10.22] The Entrepreneurial Spirit and Inner Greatness
- Everyone is born with natural gifts—the true challenge is aligning them with what deeply matters to you.
- Life isn’t about retiring or vacating; it’s about discovering new frontiers within yourself.
- Rabbi Ricky shares how his father became most impactful from ages 67 to 94, challenging conventional ideas of “peak years.”
- The question isn’t just how much of your brain you’re using, but how much of your soul.
- Identifying your core strengths requires discomfort, reflection, and a willingness to put pen to paper.
- Greatness is not earned through accolades; it’s inherent and unconditional.
- Shifting your perspective—”causing rethinking”—is where growth begins.
- Hubris is not the risk of embracing your greatness; the real danger is in not owning it.
[20.00] Building Business and People: The Conway Journey
- Rabbi Ricky recounts sweeping floors after graduating with honors—a humbling start that became a building block.
- Despite skepticism, he built Conway into a nationwide success rooted in product excellence and people care.
- People are at the core: lowest turnover, highest loyalty, and even in rough neighborhoods, trust thrived.
- Transforming retail from transactional to transformational was the guiding principle.
- Employees were seen as family, often getting their first jobs and learning to dream.
- Theft vanished when people felt seen and valued; greatness leaves no room for petty behavior.
- He emphasizes that education, like business, should be about building, not just informing.
- Eternal principles—trust, vision, and love—are what make businesses last beyond numbers.
[30.00] Failure, Risk, and the True Path to Growth
- Failure isn’t a detour—it’s the gateway to strength, character, and leadership.
- Rabbi Ricky urges his students to seek public failure early; it’s the fastest path to liberation.
- Life is inherently risky, but avoiding risk is the real danger.
- Emotional vulnerability is necessary for deep relationships; it means risking misunderstanding and still showing up.
- Anniversaries should be markers of growth, not just celebrations of survival.
- Business planning and relationship building deserve equal strategic attention.
- Passion and intimacy thrive when approached with entrepreneurial curiosity.
- Stumbles and scars are badges of courage—and they carry more wisdom than trophies.
[40.00] The Epidemic of Loneliness and What Education Misses
- America is materially rich but spiritually starving—people are lonelier than ever.
- Educators dump information but forget to see the student; human connection is the missing link.
- True teaching begins when we help someone meet themselves.
- Classrooms full of laptops but empty of eye contact reflect our emotional disconnection.
- Political leadership mirrors this loss—anger and cynicism instead of inspiration.
- A new school model is rising, focused not just on knowledge but on self-love and purpose.
- Love your students and employees—that’s where accountability and excellence grow.
- Depression, disconnection, and despair are the results of an educational system that forgot the human soul.
[50.00] Embracing Challenge, Loving Boldly, and Living Fully
- The Talmud teaches that if nothing challenged you in 40 days, you should worry—you’ve stopped growing.
- Failure means you’re alive, you’re building, you’re risking—so bring it on.
- The goal isn’t to coast but to expand; comfort is the enemy of purpose.
- Young people feel alone because the world stopped treating them as souls worth investing in.
- Real love demands risk, reflection, and relentless reinvention.
- Every person deserves to feel all one, not alone—connection is spiritual truth.
- Greatness isn’t about perfection; it’s about stepping up, again and again.
- Rabbi Ricky’s ultimate mission: build people who build people—perpetual builders of a better world.
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About Ricky Cohen
Studied abroad my first year of college in Israel. Graduated with Honors NYU Stern in 3 years. Double Major. Built a large and well know discount retail chain. Had some of the strongest performance stats in the country. Built a large real estate portfolio. Had serious financial setbacks. Been teaching for 4 decades. Taught thousands of men and women in 7 countries.

